At the root of every act of violence against one’s neighbor, there is a concession to the ‘thinking’ of the evil one, the one who ‘was a murderer from the beginning’ (John 8:44)”

Pope John Paul II, The Gospel of Life, 1995, no. 7

Domestic violence is a serious affront to the dignity of human life and the sanctity of family. As Catholics, we are called to respond with love, support, and action. By raising awareness, providing support, and taking concrete steps towards prevention, we can help to heal those affected and create a world where the dignity of every person is respected.

Understanding Domestic Violence

Domestic violence involves a pattern of abusive behaviors by one partner to control or harm another within an intimate relationship. This abuse can be physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, or financial. The sanctity of marriage and family life is violated when violence infiltrates the home. Recognizing the signs of domestic violence is the first step toward intervention and healing. It is important to note that anyone can be a victim of domestic violence, and everyone deserves support and protection.

Did you know that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men experience severe intimate partner physical violence, intimate partner contact sexual violence, and/or intimate partner stalking? On average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the United States. During one year, this equates to more than 12 million women and men. – ncdav.org/statistics

The Catholic Church’s Stance

Every person is created in the image and likeness of God (Genesis 1:27) and deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. In Familiaris Consortio, Pope St. John Paul II called for the protection of the dignity of all family members and condemned any form of abuse or violence. The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 1601-1666) emphasizes that marriage is a covenant of mutual support, love, and respect, aimed at the good of both spouses. The Church advocates for the protection and support of all victims and the rehabilitation of perpetrators. The principles of human dignity and solidarity, call for action against domestic violence.

Providing Support

For Victims

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, know that the Church stands with you. Safety is the priority. Seek help from trusted individuals, including parish priests, counselors, and local support services.

• Catholic Charities – Family Stability Program (407) 658-1818
• National Domestic Violence Hotline

For Parish Communities

Parishes can play a pivotal role in supporting victims of domestic violence. By fostering a community of awareness and compassion, we can create a safe environment for those suffering in silence. Educational programs, support groups, and resource centers can be established within our parishes to provide necessary assistance.

Additional Resources

• USCCB Resources
• USCCB When I Call for Help Pastoral Response

The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides crisis intervention and referrals to local service providers. Call 800-799-SAFE (7233) or 800-787-3224 (TTY). For more information, go to https://www.thehotline.org. Hotline Advocates are available to chat online, Monday to Friday, 9 AM – 7 PM CST.

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